mstfan
2004-09-08 14:52:31 UTC
Hi everyone:
My name is Sam and I've had anxiety and depression for over 12 years.
I'm not sure where to start, so I guess I will tell you my current
condition.
Right now I am in my mid 30's and have been homebound for about 4 years.
I have all traits of a person with severe anxiety, panic attacks, social
phobia, agoraphobia, etc.
I have a problem with everything to do with going out anywhere and doing
anything outside the house. I have not been out driving on the highway in
all that time because of these severe panic attacks that scare the living
hell out of me. Since I live out here in the middle of nowhere in the
country, things are very far away. I drive to the local post office or to
get gas for my car, but even that can be a big ordeal.
Over the years I tried medications like Prozac, Paxil, Zoloft and Klonpin,
which have done nothing for me since I don't like taking pills in the first
place. Recently my doctor just tried to push Effexor on me and I had a
horrible reaction to (and that has freaked me out now for the past 3 weeks),
which I think was mostly me. I just don't like taking something that is
going to alter me against my will. I would just like to try and tackle this
problem without it.
I have seen a few doctors over the past concerning this problem and not one
of them was helpful. Yes, they were all nice to talk to, but none of them
had any expertise in dealing with anxiety and panic attacks. I've tried to
find help groups or doctors that specialize in dealing with this problem.I
found one in Boston, but that's about a 4 hour drive from me and I haven't
been on the highway in the past 4 years.
I don't have a girlfriend and I was never married. In fact, right now I
live in my parent's basement, which is so humiliating at my age, which is
also why I really don't talk or socialize with many people. I moved up here
about 6 years ago after losing my job with a big company that I stayed with
for 10 years. I came to live with my parents while I went back to college
to get a bachelor degree in business. After 2 years, I started having
severe panic attack problems, but it wasn't my first time having a panic
problem or being homebound.
The first time I had a panic attack problem and being homebound was when I
was in my early 20's. I was at work and when it hit me I thought I was a
relapse of my asthma, which I haven't had in years. I ran to the doctor's
office in the building, and they couldn't find anything wrong with me at
all. In the end, I had to take sick leave from work for 3 months to try and
recover from being homebound. In the end, the only way I was able to
recover was on my own. I ended up pushing myself on a bike everyday to get
father and father away from home until I was ready to go back to work. It
actually worked, but I had so much more energy then. Now I fell totally
depleted after having a panic attack. I don't enjoy biking anymore and
besides I don't have one or the money to get one. I know I should exercise,
but when I do and my heart starts beating,
I don't have a job since I have such a hard time to leave home. I have no
idea what to do with my life at this point. It's a mid-life crisis for me.
I don't want to go back to an office job or work for a corporation since I
got totally screwed in my last job where I busted my ass for 10 years. I
just don't trust them and I would hate to go back to a place where I would
have to sit in long meetings or training classes, which always drove my
anxiety to such high levels. But I can't do anything unless I get over this
problem.
I've been trying to find work out of home or maybe somehow start my own
business at home. I tried selling things on ebay, but that didn't work out
too well. If anyone knows of any good home jobs, please let me know.
So right now I am medication free. I quit smoking about 3 years ago (cold
turkey without medications) since that started to bother me also. I don't
drink either although I used to have a few beers once in a while, but now I
just don't like the lightheaded feeling I get from it. I don't sleep very
long.about 5 or 6 hours at the most with little mini naps during the day. I
don't sit around and watch cable TV all day since it makes me feel like I'm
wasting time, although I do enjoy a good video game once in while to take my
mind off of things, or read a book. Lately I find that writing seems to be
very helpful as well.
Anyway, I know I am carrying on way too much here, but I was wondering if
there are any people out there that are homebound as well. I know that I'm
not the only one, but I would sure like to find someone that is so we can
chat. Maybe we can help each other out of this.
If anyone can suggest anything to help out, please post any responses.
Thanks again and take care everyone.
My name is Sam and I've had anxiety and depression for over 12 years.
I'm not sure where to start, so I guess I will tell you my current
condition.
Right now I am in my mid 30's and have been homebound for about 4 years.
I have all traits of a person with severe anxiety, panic attacks, social
phobia, agoraphobia, etc.
I have a problem with everything to do with going out anywhere and doing
anything outside the house. I have not been out driving on the highway in
all that time because of these severe panic attacks that scare the living
hell out of me. Since I live out here in the middle of nowhere in the
country, things are very far away. I drive to the local post office or to
get gas for my car, but even that can be a big ordeal.
Over the years I tried medications like Prozac, Paxil, Zoloft and Klonpin,
which have done nothing for me since I don't like taking pills in the first
place. Recently my doctor just tried to push Effexor on me and I had a
horrible reaction to (and that has freaked me out now for the past 3 weeks),
which I think was mostly me. I just don't like taking something that is
going to alter me against my will. I would just like to try and tackle this
problem without it.
I have seen a few doctors over the past concerning this problem and not one
of them was helpful. Yes, they were all nice to talk to, but none of them
had any expertise in dealing with anxiety and panic attacks. I've tried to
find help groups or doctors that specialize in dealing with this problem.I
found one in Boston, but that's about a 4 hour drive from me and I haven't
been on the highway in the past 4 years.
I don't have a girlfriend and I was never married. In fact, right now I
live in my parent's basement, which is so humiliating at my age, which is
also why I really don't talk or socialize with many people. I moved up here
about 6 years ago after losing my job with a big company that I stayed with
for 10 years. I came to live with my parents while I went back to college
to get a bachelor degree in business. After 2 years, I started having
severe panic attack problems, but it wasn't my first time having a panic
problem or being homebound.
The first time I had a panic attack problem and being homebound was when I
was in my early 20's. I was at work and when it hit me I thought I was a
relapse of my asthma, which I haven't had in years. I ran to the doctor's
office in the building, and they couldn't find anything wrong with me at
all. In the end, I had to take sick leave from work for 3 months to try and
recover from being homebound. In the end, the only way I was able to
recover was on my own. I ended up pushing myself on a bike everyday to get
father and father away from home until I was ready to go back to work. It
actually worked, but I had so much more energy then. Now I fell totally
depleted after having a panic attack. I don't enjoy biking anymore and
besides I don't have one or the money to get one. I know I should exercise,
but when I do and my heart starts beating,
I don't have a job since I have such a hard time to leave home. I have no
idea what to do with my life at this point. It's a mid-life crisis for me.
I don't want to go back to an office job or work for a corporation since I
got totally screwed in my last job where I busted my ass for 10 years. I
just don't trust them and I would hate to go back to a place where I would
have to sit in long meetings or training classes, which always drove my
anxiety to such high levels. But I can't do anything unless I get over this
problem.
I've been trying to find work out of home or maybe somehow start my own
business at home. I tried selling things on ebay, but that didn't work out
too well. If anyone knows of any good home jobs, please let me know.
So right now I am medication free. I quit smoking about 3 years ago (cold
turkey without medications) since that started to bother me also. I don't
drink either although I used to have a few beers once in a while, but now I
just don't like the lightheaded feeling I get from it. I don't sleep very
long.about 5 or 6 hours at the most with little mini naps during the day. I
don't sit around and watch cable TV all day since it makes me feel like I'm
wasting time, although I do enjoy a good video game once in while to take my
mind off of things, or read a book. Lately I find that writing seems to be
very helpful as well.
Anyway, I know I am carrying on way too much here, but I was wondering if
there are any people out there that are homebound as well. I know that I'm
not the only one, but I would sure like to find someone that is so we can
chat. Maybe we can help each other out of this.
If anyone can suggest anything to help out, please post any responses.
Thanks again and take care everyone.